"The Jewish community is hysterical about Jews marrying non-Jews. With the exception of Israel, no other issue captures as much attention, discussion, and debate in Jewish life. Organizations are scrambling to solve this "crisis" but they are doomed to fail because there is no intermarriage crisis in the United States today. But we do have a problem: we have not yet formulated a set of beliefs, behaviors, and institutional structures that define what it means to be a Jew in a pluralistic society. Our challenge is to envision a community within the context of an America where ethnic and religious walls are permeable. Judaism must become attractive both to those who are born Jews, or they will choose to leave, and to those who were not born Jews, so that they will choose to join."--Gary Tobin
In Opening the Gates, Gary Tobin challenges his fellow American Jews to avoid the process of entropy that could take a devastating toll in the Jewish community. "This should be our primary task," Tobin passionately argues. Tobin confronts his community with the eye-opening reality that "in order to rebuild and revitalize Judaism in this country we must rethink our religion as something both born Jews and converts must actively choose and stop blaming intermarriage for Judaism's decline." He implores the Jewish community to shift its focus from preventing intermarriage to embracing an open, positive, accessible, and joyful process of encouraging non-Jews to become Jews. As Tobin bluntly puts it, "We must abandon the paradigm that our children and grandchildren may become Gentiles and promote the thought that America is filled with millions of potential Jews."
Opening the Gates examines the role conversion should play in the Jewish future. It looks at the way the Jewish community currently handles issues of intermarriage and conversion and recommends strategies to incorporate conversion into a larger vision of building the next Jewish civilization. Tobin suggests what Judaism might look like if it were to promote itself as a positive choice for both Jews and non-Jews in the marketplace of religious affiliation-and tells us what the community needs to do to mold this future. Tobin's controversial plan is sure to spark productive dialogue throughout the Jewish community.
The issue is not whether Judaism will survive, but whether it will matter
A no-holds-barred argument for a radically different understanding of Jews' relationship to their faith and to their non-Jewish neighbors. Opening the Gates challenges the American Jewish community to rethink Judaism as something both born Jews and converts must actively choose-and to shift its focus from preventing intermarriage to building a community that attracts and welcomes converts.
"This bold and impassioned book offers a clear-headed and unfailingly perceptive analysis of the relationship between welcoming converts and a healthy Jewish future. The book should be required reading for all concerned about that future."--Lawrence J. Epstein, president, Conversion to Judaism Resource Center
"As Tobin promises at the outset of this provocative and stimulating book, his is a controversial thesis. But it comes from one of the most articulate thinkers on this subject, and as such, anyone seriously interested in the future of American Jewish life simply must factor this well-written work into their own thinking."--Dr. Daniel Gordis, dean, Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies
"A revolutionary challenge to the American Jewish community . . . Solid thinking about achieving and maintaining religious identity in the midst of a pluralistic culture and what 'conversion' means in such a culture. Any leader of an American congregation of any faith will find provocative ideas here."--The Rev. Loren B. Mead, founding president, the Alban Institute, Inc.
"Gary Tobin has written the most important and challenging book in American Jewish public policy in years. People may agree or disagree, but no one interested in contemporary Jewish life will be able to ignore this work."--Steven L. Spiegel, professor of political science, UCLA
"Gary Tobin, a leading light in Jewish communal research, embraces a provocative solution for American Jewry's continuity problem-a proactive conversion policy."--Barry A. Kosmin, director of research, Institute for Jewish Policy Research
Preface.
1. A Community in Transition.
2. How Fear Constrains Us.
3. Preventing Disaster When We Should Be Attracting Jews.
4. Why We Believe What We Do About Conversion.
5. Walls We Have Built Against Potential Converts.
6. Rabbis at the Center of the Storm.
7. The Case for Conversion.
8. What We Do That Works.
9. How to Open the Gates.
Resources.
Glossary.
References.
The Author.
Index.
GARY A. TOBIN, Ph.D., is president of the Institute for Jewish and Community Research in San Francisco and director of the Leonard and Madlyn Abramson Program in Jewish Policy Research at the University of Judaism. He has published extensively in the areas of antisemitism, synagogue affiliation, Jewish organizational planning, and philanthropy and foundations in the Jewish community. Tobin is the recipient of the 1997 Koret Foundation Prize for his research in the American Jewish community.