An in-depth presentation of traditional Jewish approaches to resolving interpersonal conflicts. Among the topics discussed are the obligation to pursue peace, what constitutes constructive conflict, countering judgmental biases, resolving conflict through dialogue, apologies, forgiveness, and anger management.
Preface
Part I¿Introductory Essay
Chapter 1: Contemporary Conflict Resolution: An Overview of the Field and the Core Components of its Educational Programs
Part II¿Foundational Values and Concepts
Chapter 2: Pursuing Peace and Refraining from Destructive Conflict
Chapter 3: Rabbinic Perspectives on Constructive Conflict: A ¿Dispute for the Sake of Heaven¿
Part III¿Foundational Commandments and Laws
Chapter 4: Basic Interpersonal Obligations and Prohibitions
Part IV¿Basic Commandments and Laws of Interpersonal Conflict Resolution
Chapter 5: Judging People Favorably: Countering Negative Judgmental Biases
Chapter 6: Tokhahah: Judaism¿s Basic Approach to Resolving Interpersonal Conflict through Dialogue
Chapter 7: Retaliation and Resentment: Not Taking Revenge and Not Bearing a Grudge
Chapter 8: Apologies: The Asking and Granting of Forgiveness
Part V¿The Affective Component¿Anger Management
Chapter 9: Jewish Anger Management
Conclusion
Glossary
Bibliography
Howard Kaminsky is a research fellow at the Pardes Center for Judaism and Conflict Resolution, and serves as a mediator for Community Mediation Services in Queens, NY. He has an EdD in religion and education from Teachers College, Columbia University and rabbinic ordination from Mesivta Tifereth Jerusalem.