The Forgiving Life offers scientifically supported guidance to help people forgive those in their lives who have acted unfairly and have inflicted emotional hurt. It does not minimize the devastation of that hurt. It does not require reconciliation with the one who inflicted the hurt. Rather, it describes a process, followed with success by people around the world, to confront the pain, rise above it to forgive, and in so doing, to loosen the grip of depression, anger, and resentment that has soured life.
In this book, noted forgiveness expert Robert D. Enright invites readers to learn the benefits of forgiveness and to embark on a path of forgiveness, leaving behind a legacy of love. Guided by thought-provoking questions, journaling exercises, and Enright's kind encouragement, readers can chart their own journey through a new life of forgiveness.
Preface
Acknowledgments
I. The Basics
II. Overview of the Forgiveness Process
III. Getting Organized
IV. Forgiving Those Who Have Hurt You
V. Giving the Gift of Forgiveness to Others
Appendix A: Process of How People Forgive Someone Who Was Unjust
Appendix B: Forgiveness Landscape Rating Scale
Appendix C: Personal Forgiveness Scale
Appendix D: The Forgiveness Guidepost Form
Notes
Index
About the Author